45 elopement activity ideas to add to your timeline 

How do we even fill a full-day elopement? With anything you want! Whether you decide to go all in on an adrenaline rush filled day or take it slow and relaxed, there is literally something for everyone. Now that you aren’t worrying about entertaining guests, you have endless possibilities. I always send out a questionnaire to each client couple after booking, to help gear and understand your idea of the perfect elopement day. Below is a list of 43 elopement day activity ideas running both sides of the gamut of relaxed and adrenaline inducing. 

Couple gets ready and celebrates together before their Malibu Elopement

Kaneohe Bay Intimate Wedding

 

Traditional wedding activities that you still may include into your elopement day

 

  1. Get ready together (or separately) 
  2. First look
  3. Gift giving 
  4. Vow exchange 
  5. Champagne pop
  6. First dance 
  7. Cake cutting
  8. Cultural traditions 
  9. Dancing 
  10. Read letters/open gifts from friends and family 

 

Big Sur Elopement Sunset Portraits Lanterns

Couple poses for portraits at sunset in Malibu with picnic

Outdoorsy activities 

  1. Short hike to ceremony or portrait spot
  2. Bike ride
  3. E-Motorcycle tour 
  4. Make S’mores 
  5. Helicopter Ride
  6. Sunset plane ride 
  7. Horseback ride 
  8. Stargazing 
  9. Off-roading 
  10. Surf
  11. Sailing/Charter a sailboat 
  12. Stand up paddle board
  13. Ski/Snowboard
  14. Kayak
  15. Dunk in the ocean/lake
  16. Take a dip in hot springs
  17. Body surf 
  18. Rent a sprinter van or camper to go camping 
  19. Visit flower fields 
  20. Cruise the boardwalk on beach cruisers 

Couple celebrates their elopement with cake cutting in Joshua Tree

 

Big Sur Elopement Tattoos

Cozy/Relaxed ideas

  1. Picnic 
  2. Cozy by a fireplace 
  3. Play music 
  4. Go to a coffee shop or brew coffee at your accommodations 
  5. Hire a private chef 
  6. Get matching tattoos 
  7. Take an art class together
  8. Walk on the beach 
  9. Rent a vintage car and go for a coastal drive 
  10. Hit up a new or favorite brewery 
  11. Play games at an arcade
  12. Visit a farmers’ market
  13. Spin your favorite records
  14. Visit a food hall
  15. Make s’mores/have a bonfire

Big Sur Elopement Tattoos

Couple rides e motorcycle in Joshua Tree desert elopement

 

Want to know what this looks like? Check out Jess and Jesse’s Big Sur elopement with a rented vintage car, a picnic on the beach, and dancing at sunset!

Feeling inspired by these elopement activity ideas? Reach out to plan your elopement full with activities inspired by this post.

 

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Intimate wedding + elopement photographer for couples who want to follow their hearts and celebrate in a way that feels true to them